Despite her young age, 11-year-old Farah* has gone through more traumatic experiences than most people should in a lifetime. In 2014, her family was forced to leave their village on the outskirts of Mosul and move to the east of the city, where ISIS was gaining control. A few months later, Farah鈥檚 father died. She then spent two years with her family living under the harsh rule of ISIS. She has never been to school. 

鈥淚 barely let my children leave the house鈥攖o keep them away from ISIS,鈥 Farah鈥檚 mother Yasmin* explains. 鈥淚SIS played with children鈥檚 brains.鈥

As the battle to retake Mosul reached their neighbourhood, Farah鈥檚 family undertook a perilous journey to find safety.

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Eleven-year-old Farah outside the tent in Nargazilia camp where her family is living after fleeing the battle to retake Mosul from ISIS. Farah's father died in Mosul.
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鈥淲e were starving in Mosul,鈥 her mother Yasmin explains. 鈥淲e told ourselves, 鈥業f they shoot us, then so be it.鈥 We had nothing鈥攏o water, no food.鈥

ISIS placed mines and booby traps in neighbourhoods and surrounding areas to keep people inside the city and even used them as human shields.

鈥淭here was one person in the neighbourhood who knew where all the mines were, and who could keep us safe as we escaped. But he charged money, and we didn鈥檛 have any. So we had to risk it alone,鈥 says Yasmin.

鈥淲hen we ran we didn鈥檛 know where the bombs were in the ground; we didn鈥檛 know where we could put our feet. We didn鈥檛 know the way to go to reach the Iraqi army. We stepped on the footsteps of the people that had fled before us,鈥 she recalls. 鈥淚 was so scared.鈥

Somehow, Yasmin and her children made it out alive. Her extended family tried to flee as well, but they were not as lucky. 鈥淲e told them which way to go, which way was safe. But three of them were killed by a mine. The rest turned back. At first ISIS didn鈥檛 let them bring back the bodies. They stayed in the open for three days and only after that were they able to bury them.鈥

Finding safety

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Inside the 探花精选 safe healing and learning space in Nargazilia camp. It's a place where children who fled ISIS have a chance "to forget their worries, to play and to just be kids,鈥 says the 探花精选's Mary Winters.
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Today Farah lives with her mother and six siblings in a tent鈥攊dentical to the thousands of others that make up Nargazilia camp. As summer temperatures rise toward 50 degrees Celsius, it鈥檚 too hot to go outside. This means it鈥檚 hard for Farah to meet other children and break the monotony of living in a camp.

As an escape, each day Farah and her six-year-old brother Youssef* spend time in the 探花精选鈥檚 safe and healing learning space. 

鈥淭he safe space is designed to provide children aged six to 11 with the chance to forget their worries, to play and to just be kids,鈥 explains 探花精选 child protection and education coordinator Mary Winters. 鈥淏oys and girls take part in activities and games designed to help them to process the trauma that they have experienced over the past three years and give them the tools to recover and build up their resilience for the future.鈥

鈥淚 really like the teacher,鈥 says Farah. 鈥淚 learned that I should be nice to my brothers and sisters and to not fight with them.鈥

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Farah and her little brother Youssef practice their writing at home in their tent after visiting the 探花精选 safe healing and learning space. Farah has never been to school.
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Many children like Farah that have lived under ISIS rule have often seen things that no child should have to see.

鈥淓ven now in the camp we still carry this fear with us,鈥 explains Farah鈥檚 mother, Yasmin.

Since Farah and Youssef have started going to the 探花精选鈥檚 safe space, Yasmin has seen their behaviour change for the better.

鈥淣ow Youssef makes everyone laugh,鈥 she says. 鈥淗e鈥檚 always telling us that we have to go and wash our hands before we eat food鈥攕omething that he learned there.鈥 She adds, 鈥淔arah knows exactly what time the activity starts and is always there on time so she doesn鈥檛 miss a single minute.鈥 

The 探花精选 works across Iraq providing relief supplies, education support, protection services and emergency financial assistance to displaced Iraqis, Syrian refugees and vulnerable locals. Supported by the European Commission鈥檚 Humanitarian aid and Civil Protection department (ECHO), the 探花精选 is helping children to heal and overcome the trauma they have experienced.

*Names changed to protect identities